There are six things that we tend to be rigid about: Religion, values, absolutes, parenting, lifestyles and politics.
Let’s talk about religion for a moment. How can you tell if you’re rigid when it comes to religion? Well, have you ever said if God’s word says it, there’s no need to discuss it? Or anything like this?
Saying anything like that shuts down conversation. Maybe the more appropriate thing to do when discussing religion is ask questions that invite understanding, like, What do you believe about God or spirituality? What did your family believe when you were growing up? What do you think happens after you die? What has been your experience with church and/or others who say they are Christian?
These kinds of flexible curious questions invite communication which leads to a better understanding. When you show that you not only care but are trying to understand where they are coming from, most of the time, you will receive the blessing of being understood.
Truthfully
Kim-Evinda
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